How To Ask & Answer “Do You Mind”

How To Ask & Answer “Do You Mind1”

A lot of English learners tell me that they have trouble with the question, “Do you mind….” It’s a bit of a complicated question to ask and answer, partly because of the meaning of the word mind. As a verb, mind means to be bothered or to be upset by something. Look at this sentence:

  • I mind people smoking in a restaurant.

It means, I am bothered by or upset by people smoking in a restaurant. For today’s English lesson, I am going to show you the two ways we use Do you mind…, a very common question in English conversation.

Asking someone to do something for you
First of all, you can use Do you mind + VerbING (gerund) when you want to ask someone to do something for you. In this case, Do you mind means Do you have any problem… (or) Does it bother you to…

  • Do you mind closing the window?
  • Do you mind helping me with my homework?
  • Do you mind smoking somewhere else?

Asking permission
On the other hand, when you want to do the action, or you want a third person to do the action, you can do it this way:

  • Do you mind me closing the window?
  • Do you mind Jack helping me with my homework?
  • Do you mind us leaving the party early tonight.

You can also use Do you mind if + sentence.

  • Do you mind if I sit here?
  • Do you mind if I close the window?
  • Do you mind if I smoke here?

Note that we generally do not say “Do you mind you…” or “Do you mind if you…” For example, these sentences is not natural:

  • Do you mind you smoking somewhere else?
  • Do you mind if you smoke somewhere else?

So how do you answer these questions? Remember that Do you mind means Do you have any problem, so how you answer depends on the situation.

Situation #1. Someone asks if they can sit at your table and you think it is not a problem. You are OK if they sit at the same table. You can answer like this:

  • Question: Do you mind if I sit here?
  • Answer: No, I don’t mind. Please have a seat. (or) No, I don’t mind. (or) No, go ahead.

In general, when someone asks Do you mind and you do not mind, the usual answer is “No, I don’t mind” or “No, go ahead.” Here are some more examples:

  • Question: Do you mind if I open the window?
  • Answer: No, not at all. Please do so.
  • Question: Do you mind if I turn on the TV?
  • Answer: No, go ahead.
  • Question: Do you mind if I leave work early today?
  • Answer: No, not at all.

Situation #2. Someone asks if they can sit at your table, but you think it is a problem. You are not OK if they sit at the same table. You can answer like this:

  • Question: Do you mind if I sit here?
  • Answer: I’m sorry, this seat is taken. (or) I’m sorry, I’m waiting for someone.

So, when someone asks Do you mind and you do mind, the usual answer is “I’m sorry, but…” and then say the reason why it is a problem. Here are some more examples:

  • Question: Do you mind if I open the window?
  • Answer: I’m sorry. I feel cold, so please don’t
  • Question: Do you mind if I turn on the TV?
  • Answer: I’m sorry. I’m studying right now.
  • Question: Do you mind if I leave work early today?
  • Answer: I’m sorry. We’re too busy today.

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When Do We Use “I Were” Instead Of “I Was”

I was home all day yesterday and heard a lot of noise coming from my neighbor’s house. It seems like they are having some work done there. If I were them, I would ask the carpenter to not make noise on a Sunday. I wish I were braver, because if I were, I would have gone over there and yelled at them!

For today’s free English Lesson, I’m going to show you some special cases when we use “I were” instead of the usual “I was.”. Have a look at the paragraph above once more and then check the lesson.

I am sure you know how to form and use the past tense of the “be” verb. We use was for singular subjects, and were for plural subjects, like this:

  • I was at home all day yesterday. ←Singular subject
  • The pen was on the table. ←Singular subject
  • We were at home all day yesterday. ←Plural subject
  • The pens were on the table. ←Plural subject

However, there are two basic exceptions to this rule. The first is after “if” in a conditional sentence. After “if”, we use were:

  • If I were taller, I would be a better basketball player. Not, If I was taller….
  • If Jack were here, he could fix the computer for us. Not, If Jack was here….
  • If I were you, I would quit that job and get a better one.

As well, we use were after “wish”:

  • I wish I were taller.
  • I wish Jack were here to fix the computer.
  • I wish I were good at sports!

Well, I hope you found this lesson helpful. How about writing a few sentences using If I were or If I was in the comment box below? I’ll review them for you!

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How To Use “Depend” – English Vocabulary Lesson

Depend is an interesting verb in English because it has two very different meanings and uses. For today’s free English Lesson, I’m going to show you some different ways to use this English verb.

First, depend means to rely on someone or something. Depend with this meaning always needs the preposition on (depend on), and an object:

  • I depend on my students to do their homework J
  • Children depend on their parents for food, shelter, and love.
  • The museum depends on donations to continue operating.
  • We depend heavily on the internet and technology these days.

Depend also means do be controlled or determined by something. You can use depend this way with the preposition on (depend on), and an object or without an object, but the object should be explained in the conversation:

  • Do I like spicy food? Well it depends. If the spice is not too extreme I can eat it.
  • I want to go to the beach tomorrow but it depends on the weather.
  • Jack said he wants to get a new car, but it really depends on the price.
  • I’ll can pick you up at the station, but it depends on the time.

Well, I hope you found this lesson helpful. Now its your turn. How about writing a few sentences using depend in the comment box below? I’ll review them for you!

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